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by Chancellor
Thu Jul 11, 2019 7:19 pm
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Topic: About skin cancer.........
Replies: 18
Views: 12099

Re: About skin cancer.........

Chancellor of many talents! Very kind of you to offer support and education. I can talk skin cancer all the time! I frequently tell people at work that there is no such thing as a healthy tan....and threaten to bring in the book I am published in showing HUGE repairs on skin cancers that were left ...
by Chancellor
Thu Jul 11, 2019 5:21 pm
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Topic: About skin cancer.........
Replies: 18
Views: 12099

Re: About skin cancer.........

Was it a dark spot?
by Chancellor
Thu Jul 11, 2019 4:57 pm
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Topic: Going through Heartworm treatment
Replies: 15
Views: 10618

Re: Going through Heartworm treatment

Poor Poor Bailey. This second day is really hard on her. She started crying on the way home from the vet. And it was a long trip made longer by road construction! She is resting somewhat comfortably right now and just moaning. But she was crying out this morning. Made me cry.
by Chancellor
Thu Jul 11, 2019 4:56 pm
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Topic: About skin cancer.........
Replies: 18
Views: 12099

Re: About skin cancer.........

I guess we should ask, is this a melanoma type skin cancer or basal cell or squamous cell? The latter two are more of a pesky problem than melanoma
by Chancellor
Thu Jul 11, 2019 1:43 pm
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Topic: About skin cancer.........
Replies: 18
Views: 12099

Re: About skin cancer.........

Ah, skin cancer. Something I know very very well. Before my career change to computer life, I was a Mohs Histotechnologist. This is a specially trained histotechnologist who helps to map out skin cancers while the patient is receiving surgery. Mohs is generally reserved for larger skin cancers or ar...
by Chancellor
Wed Jul 10, 2019 7:19 pm
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Topic: Going through Heartworm treatment
Replies: 15
Views: 10618

Re: Going through Heartworm treatment

Hayburner wrote:Healing vibes coming your young pups way.

I never knew heartworm was painful.


The treatment for it sure seems to be. My heart just breaks for this girl. She has been through so much.
by Chancellor
Wed Jul 10, 2019 5:57 pm
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Topic: Going through Heartworm treatment
Replies: 15
Views: 10618

Re: Going through Heartworm treatment

She is currently on aspirin. I am also giving her benedryl to just let her sleep through most of it, I hope. It is HEARTBREAKING. She reminds me of when I was going through chemo. Poor baby. She is just a little over a year old at this point. So, she has youth on her side. She is currently sleeping ...
by Chancellor
Wed Jul 10, 2019 2:09 pm
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Topic: Going through Heartworm treatment
Replies: 15
Views: 10618

Going through Heartworm treatment

Poor Bailey. This dog has been through so much. She came from a very abusive situation down south. And now she has been diagnosed with heartworm. She had her first shot this morning and she is crying a lot. Your thoughts, prayers, jingles are requested. And any ideas to help her through this are als...
by Chancellor
Tue Jul 09, 2019 4:40 pm
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: Good connection
Replies: 103
Views: 50789

Re: Good connection

Sorry that I was asleep at the wheel when things got a bit heated. When I am not working (like a four day weekend) I try to stay away from computers.
by Chancellor
Tue Jul 09, 2019 12:19 pm
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: Good connection
Replies: 103
Views: 50789

Re: Good connection

I hope Kelo stops by and weighs in! Looks like I missed most of this. Discussing dressage and cow horses is probably my favorite topic and I could go on and on, but I'm not going to get in the middle of people hating on western styles of riding. We all love our horses, we love learning new things, ...
by Chancellor
Mon Jul 08, 2019 5:46 pm
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Topic: Scr3wing with the spam callers
Replies: 4
Views: 4746

Re: Scr3wing with the spam callers

Funny, I just did this. I got a call from someone telling me that my google business account was missing information and might need to be suspended. I know that 1. Google is not going to call me. 2. I manage a few businesses on Google and the information is up to date. 3. if the data WAS missing, I ...
by Chancellor
Mon Jul 08, 2019 1:28 pm
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: Good connection
Replies: 103
Views: 50789

Re: Good connection

Sometimes, it would be good to agree to disagree without making it personal.
by Chancellor
Tue Jun 18, 2019 7:09 pm
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Topic: Safe sport
Replies: 125
Views: 70750

Re: Safe sport

Ten or twenty years later, I think the victims should be honored for sharing their stories, and if there is an organization that will pick up the case and investigate, I don't see anything wrong with that. And if they are sharing things that have been clouded by bad memory? What then? That is the w...
by Chancellor
Tue Jun 18, 2019 6:18 pm
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Topic: Safe sport
Replies: 125
Views: 70750

Re: Safe sport

I'm not a fan of no tolerance as a blanket rule either, but our society's proven over and over again of late that it's unable to police itself. Just look at the Catholic church and Penn State abuses. Obviously self-policing is a bust, but whether the *perfect* solution is Safe Sport or not is above...
by Chancellor
Tue Jun 18, 2019 5:42 pm
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Topic: Safe sport
Replies: 125
Views: 70750

Re: Safe sport

It's our collective duty as a society to protect kids. In doing so, we (again, as a collective) can't make random blanket exceptions for 14yo A who acts with maturity and agency v. 14yo B who need a parent to advise. I'm horrified thinking about the trauma so-called "trusted" adults infli...
by Chancellor
Tue Jun 18, 2019 5:41 pm
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Topic: Safe sport
Replies: 125
Views: 70750

Re: Safe sport

I have started multiple responses to this thread and deleted all of them. Abby has said a bunch of my thoughts here. I do think there is a need to protect athletes. But I am not sure safesport is right. We need statutes of limitations. Let's face it, people's memories are not always clear after so l...
by Chancellor
Mon Jun 17, 2019 12:40 pm
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: Karl Mikolka has died
Replies: 12
Views: 11119

Re: Karl Mikolka has died

Hi Chance - the mass will be on June 22 in Vienna. Today's mass was small but meaningful. There were a few of Karl's students in attendance, and some lovely memories told by one of his Gloucester friends. Lynn played a lovely piece on the piano, with a wonderful clarinet accompanying her. Most peop...
by Chancellor
Wed Jun 12, 2019 11:27 am
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: Karl Mikolka has died
Replies: 12
Views: 11119

Re: Karl Mikolka has died

I am in vienna now. I can't find anything which says there will be a mass here. But if you see something, please let me know.
by Chancellor
Sun Jun 09, 2019 4:03 am
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Topic: Spanish Riding School today!
Replies: 7
Views: 6344

Spanish Riding School today!

My trip of a lifetime has started. IT was a bit rough as Boston traffic made us late. Air Canada wouldn't take our bags. So, we drove to Montreal for the second leg of our flight. But here we are in Vienna. Today is the Spanish Riding school. I'm so excited I could barely sleep last night. More pict...
by Chancellor
Sun Jun 09, 2019 4:01 am
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: Karl Mikolka has died
Replies: 12
Views: 11119

Re: Karl Mikolka has died

Thank you Wicky for posting this. I will unfortunately, not be in the area. I am in Vienna.
by Chancellor
Wed May 29, 2019 6:30 pm
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Topic: Help me Horse Shop?!? - Now need help with names :)
Replies: 89
Views: 65158

Re: Help me Horse Shop?!?

Okay, Xan, how the heck do you see his hind pasterns hitting the ground. Not doubting you see it but wondering HOW you see it.
by Chancellor
Wed May 29, 2019 4:33 pm
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Topic: Done deal, I bought a horse!
Replies: 53
Views: 29231

Re: Done deal, I bought a horse!

WHOA! He is GORGEOUS! Congratulations! We will need lots of video and pictures when he arrives.
by Chancellor
Wed May 29, 2019 11:58 am
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Topic: Tips for dealing with a male chauvinist
Replies: 35
Views: 19744

Re: Tips for dealing with a male chauvinist

Anyone remember the old Seinfeld episode where George Costanza thinks of all these comebacks AFTER the time had passed. That was me this weekend. But I was thinking of how I could have taken the high road (No, really I WAS).
by Chancellor
Tue May 28, 2019 7:02 pm
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Topic: Tips for dealing with a male chauvinist
Replies: 35
Views: 19744

Re: Tips for dealing with a male chauvinist

I work with several of these. Good news is that they're not nearly as slick as they think they are; other people do see right through them, too. And there is absolutely no glory in trying to get them to admit they're wrong/don't know what they're talking about. You just end up looking like a terrib...
by Chancellor
Tue May 28, 2019 12:29 pm
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Topic: Tips for dealing with a male chauvinist
Replies: 35
Views: 19744

Re: Tips for dealing with a male chauvinist

Things were just odd. This guy talks a really good game. One of those people who can sound like they know what they are doing....until you delve a little deeper and discover he is the wizard of Oz. I did not quit. Although I do still have two job interviews coming up. He is now going to go back to c...
by Chancellor
Wed May 22, 2019 6:35 pm
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Topic: Centered Riding
Replies: 15
Views: 11331

Re: Centered Riding

For the foot thing: she tapped various places on the sole until I could feel the tap go up thru my leg. She placed that spot on the stirrup, then illustrated how my leg coukd flex thru the hip. She moved my foot slightly, and suddenly my leg was locked: zero flexion thru the hip. A definite eye ope...
by Chancellor
Wed May 22, 2019 6:34 pm
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Topic: Dear Miss Manners
Replies: 8
Views: 6923

Re: Dear Miss Manners

I'm definitely not Miss Manners....but I don't see a reason not to cut the pieces of meat. Couldn't they take two pieces if they wanted?
by Chancellor
Wed May 22, 2019 5:37 pm
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Topic: Tips for dealing with a male chauvinist
Replies: 35
Views: 19744

Re: Tips for dealing with a male chauvinist

This guy just takes the cake. He has all sorts of opinions on everything but can't really come up with anything tangible. Whatever. Two other companies have just called me for interviews. I think it is a sign to get outta here. I have almost made it. Just need to make it through today and tomorrow m...
by Chancellor
Mon May 20, 2019 1:43 pm
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Topic: Tips for dealing with a male chauvinist
Replies: 35
Views: 19744

Re: Tips for dealing with a male chauvinist

I've been with him for 40 minutes. He is already starting.
by Chancellor
Fri May 17, 2019 7:22 pm
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Topic: Tips for dealing with a male chauvinist
Replies: 35
Views: 19744

Re: Tips for dealing with a male chauvinist

Bip wrote:Well, I didn’t see you on the news tonight so you must be doing ok!

This is NEXT week. You may well see me on the news.
by Chancellor
Wed May 15, 2019 8:25 pm
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: Karl Mikolka has died
Replies: 12
Views: 11119

Re: Karl Mikolka has died

Thanks. Yes, that is Chancellor!
by Chancellor
Wed May 15, 2019 12:55 pm
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Topic: Tips for dealing with a male chauvinist
Replies: 35
Views: 19744

Re: Tips for dealing with a male chauvinist

You can't get into a Pi**sing match with this neanderthal, because as you are the only woman you will be seen as instigating, not retaliating. I recommend that you remain professional, be gracious in your replies and just move on with your life. Having been the only woman in a male dominated group,...
by Chancellor
Tue May 14, 2019 12:42 pm
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Topic: Tips for dealing with a male chauvinist
Replies: 35
Views: 19744

Re: Tips for dealing with a male chauvinist

piedmontfields wrote:Only 4 days? Lucky you.

Sincerely,

a feminist in a male and masculinist-dominated field


This is the man they have picked as my "backup" despite his knowledge being very lacking. So, I only have to work with him for four days in the same building.
by Chancellor
Mon May 13, 2019 7:20 pm
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Topic: Tips for dealing with a male chauvinist
Replies: 35
Views: 19744

Re: Tips for dealing with a male chauvinist

And, now, my worst nightmare has come to fruition. They are sending said chauvinist here. And I have to work with him for four days
by Chancellor
Mon May 13, 2019 4:59 pm
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: Karl Mikolka has died
Replies: 12
Views: 11119

Karl Mikolka has died

Several years ago, I had the good fortune of taking many lessons with him. In this picture, I am being longlined by the master.
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Rest in peace Karl!
by Chancellor
Mon May 13, 2019 12:30 pm
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Topic: Centered Riding
Replies: 15
Views: 11331

Re: Centered Riding

I was lucky enough to ride with Sally Swift herself. And it was an amazing experience. The foot in the stirrups thing was an eyeopener for me as well.
by Chancellor
Thu May 09, 2019 6:34 pm
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Topic: The Kentucky Derby telecast
Replies: 6
Views: 5915

Re: The Kentucky Derby telecast

To put the coverage in perspective... KD moved to later in the day to also get left coast viewers. The stuff we consider "fluff" is stuff that is broadcast to try to appeal to the general public, not the horse savvy viewer (which is really a small % of overall viewers). Maybe by showing w...
by Chancellor
Thu May 09, 2019 1:26 pm
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Topic: The Kentucky Derby telecast
Replies: 6
Views: 5915

The Kentucky Derby telecast

Anyone watch? I am so disappointed every year in it. When ABC had the coverage it was earlier in the day for one. But it was all about the horses. I mean, do we really care where the jockeys are going to walk down to their horses? Seriously? And do I really care about which horse some stupid NFL pla...
by Chancellor
Mon Apr 01, 2019 10:48 am
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Topic: Don Martillo diagnosed with Shivers
Replies: 33
Views: 21196

Re: Don Martillo diagnosed with Shivers

OMG! Scruffy! I am so sorry. That just sucks sooooo much.
by Chancellor
Tue Mar 12, 2019 2:41 pm
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Topic: Caesar crusted beef tenderloin
Replies: 2
Views: 3197

Re: Caesar crusted beef tenderloin

Tuddy, I am the same as you. We cooked this to medium and it was delicious. I didn't even mind that it was "just" medium.
by Chancellor
Mon Mar 11, 2019 7:21 pm
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Topic: Caesar crusted beef tenderloin
Replies: 2
Views: 3197

Caesar crusted beef tenderloin

https://www.epicurious.com/recipes/food ... 67#reviews

I made this last night for my friend's 50th birthday party. OMG, it was soooooo yummy. The roast was incredibly tender and succulent. The caesar crust was very very tasty!
by Chancellor
Mon Mar 11, 2019 6:44 pm
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Topic: How do you end a friendship?
Replies: 20
Views: 13576

Re: How do you end a friendship?

I have done this with my sister. She is toxic. Sadly, when we were young, we were more like friends than sisters. I just don't have anything to do with her. If she is at a family function, I choose not to be there. It's just not worth it. The last time I saw her was at my parents' 50th wedding anniv...
by Chancellor
Fri Mar 08, 2019 8:45 pm
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Topic: Tips for dealing with a male chauvinist
Replies: 35
Views: 19744

Re: Tips for dealing with a male chauvinist

My boss, who was copied on the email, corrected him on the spelling of my name. I was happy to hear that. I am trying to use piedmontfields advice here. Just making sure I am competent and right before I speak. I don't think I could do ANYTHING to pad his ego anymore Rosie B. First, he isn't offerin...
by Chancellor
Thu Mar 07, 2019 4:00 pm
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Topic: Tips for dealing with a male chauvinist
Replies: 35
Views: 19744

Re: Tips for dealing with a male chauvinist

I’m no help. I don’t even think there is a feminist card, just a bunch of women who have experienced similar (and sadly, much worse) on an ongoing basis forever and whenever we get fed up and point out the frank and blatant bull shit, the men call us bitches and insist we stop bothering them with t...
by Chancellor
Thu Mar 07, 2019 3:15 pm
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Topic: Tips for dealing with a male chauvinist
Replies: 35
Views: 19744

Re: Tips for dealing with a male chauvinist

Sadly, I am the only one in this site with the programming knowledge. He is addressing a team of 6-7 men who are all in corporate IT....none of them is really on my "team" and are not even in this site. I MIGHT be able to get Hal to address him to say "let's ask Laurie who would know ...
by Chancellor
Thu Mar 07, 2019 1:51 pm
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Topic: Tips for dealing with a male chauvinist
Replies: 35
Views: 19744

Tips for dealing with a male chauvinist

I am not one to play the feminist card. I work in a male dominated industry as a software developer. I do not work for my company's IT department (THANK GOD). A fact which irritates the heck out of the old boy's club of our IT department. There is a guy down in corporate in NC who apparently has som...
by Chancellor
Wed Mar 06, 2019 1:55 pm
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Topic: Biggest Bucket List trip is booked. Vienna in June
Replies: 12
Views: 8956

Re: Biggest Bucket List trip is booked. Vienna in June

Oh, sounds like a great trip! My parents loved Vienna, but I've never been there. IIRC, Zonderpaard lived there for a few years; she might be a good resource for insider info. She doesn't seem to post here but is active on COTH. I actually have a friend who lived there as well who is helping. But t...
by Chancellor
Mon Mar 04, 2019 1:04 pm
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Topic: Biggest Bucket List trip is booked. Vienna in June
Replies: 12
Views: 8956

Biggest Bucket List trip is booked. Vienna in June

Michael and I are finally going to do one of my biggest bucket list trips. We are going to Vienna in June for our 16th anniversary! A friend of mine who is a travel agent has an in with the SRS so we are doing everything that we can with that. Hopefully we will do some wineries and castles. Anyone b...
by Chancellor
Mon Mar 04, 2019 1:02 pm
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Topic: HELP: houseguests...
Replies: 26
Views: 15199

Re: HELP: houseguests...

All I can do is commiserate. Houseguests are the worst!
by Chancellor
Wed Feb 27, 2019 3:48 pm
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Topic: Ignorance and getting rolled
Replies: 46
Views: 27616

Re: Ignorance and getting rolled

Each of which is in one person's opinion... I like numbers too. Numbers can often be spun to fit the need or desired interpretation.


Ain't that the truth?

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