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- Wed Jun 14, 2017 3:06 pm
- Forum: Veterinary, Nutrition, Grooming & Farrier Questions
- Topic: Finally a Diagnosis:Sticking Stifles
- Replies: 2
- Views: 4418
Re: Finally a Diagnosis:Sticking Stifles
Congratulations! My horse is looking weird behind again lately and I sure wish I knew why.
- Sun Jun 11, 2017 7:53 pm
- Forum: Dressage Training
- Topic: Insights from Jeremy Steinberg Clinic
- Replies: 33
- Views: 23470
Re: Insights from Jeremy Steinberg Clinic
Ignoring the feel is an idea that confused me at first reading, but after a couple of examples were given, I think I get it. Many people have horses that are not really connected, maybe BTV or just a little sucked back, but they think it's good because the horse is light. Then when they get a real c...
- Mon May 22, 2017 2:24 am
- Forum: Dressage Training
- Topic: Jigging
- Replies: 17
- Views: 18026
Re: Jigging
Most people, when their horse is "just" walking, are just sitting and not offering the horse any input. It helps to continue to ride. ;) I do that by using my legs very lightly in the rhythm of the walk, dictating the tempo and stride length that I want. Usually it is no more than followin...
- Fri Mar 03, 2017 10:08 pm
- Forum: The Observation Lounge/ Cookbook Forum even Hot Topics
- Topic: Installing wood laminate flooring
- Replies: 8
- Views: 9436
Re: Installing wood laminate flooring
I meant to do my own, but was running low on time. I kept hearing how it was so easy, a great DIY project. I'm so glad I hired it out. It took him two days and lots of sweat to do one room about 10 x 14 with three doorways and one floor vent. I would never have had the patience.
- Wed Feb 22, 2017 3:24 pm
- Forum: Tack, Apparel, Facilities and Transportation
- Topic: Saddle flap length - update with picture
- Replies: 10
- Views: 14336
Re: Saddle flap length - update with picture
I would not consider two fingers nearly enough. Just dropping your heel a little deeper could get you in range to get pinched between the flap and boot top, and you could never drop the stirrups even a hole. Though maybe she meant without stirrups when the leg is hanging? I'd still want more. Looks ...
- Sat Feb 18, 2017 1:44 pm
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- Topic: Question for those mid-40s and older.
- Replies: 30
- Views: 23090
Re: Question for those mid-40s and older.
I fired a doctor a few years ago for blowing off similar issues, and I have not regretted it for an instant. Definitely push. You are the only advocate you can count on. If your doc still declines to take you seriously, get a new one who will.
- Sat Feb 04, 2017 6:02 pm
- Forum: Tack, Apparel, Facilities and Transportation
- Topic: Saddle flap length - update with picture
- Replies: 10
- Views: 14336
Re: Saddle flap length
Changing the flap length doesn't change the balance of the saddle at all, so wouldn't put you "out of whack". As long as the tops of your boots aren't catching on the flap it is a question of aesthetics. Have someone snap a picture of you so you can see if it looks ok. I would bet it is fi...
- Sun Jan 29, 2017 2:00 pm
- Forum: Tack, Apparel, Facilities and Transportation
- Topic: Saddle fit
- Replies: 9
- Views: 12526
Re: Saddle fit
It's so hard to determine from a picture, but here are my thoughts: It doesn't need to come up much in front, seems doable, but I'd need to look at the shape of the panel and of the horse without the saddle. If the panel is narrow there may not be enough panel depth to work with, or if the horse has...
- Thu Jan 12, 2017 3:40 pm
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- Topic: Jan 21 Women's March
- Replies: 90
- Views: 85798
Re: Jan 21 Women's March
There is an option to RSVP, so I assume numbers come from that.
- Wed Jan 11, 2017 4:10 pm
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- Topic: Jan 21 Women's March
- Replies: 90
- Views: 85798
Re: Jan 21 Women's March
Checking on whether their is a march near me, I found this: https://www.womensmarch.com/sisters/ Pins show marches worldwide/ 

- Sun Nov 20, 2016 1:29 pm
- Forum: Dressage Training
- Topic: Bucking with flying changes -- Jul 11/17 update
- Replies: 14
- Views: 14846
Re: Bucking with flying changes
Congratulations! I'd call this really significant progress, and I'm happy for you both that you are able to recognize each of these imperfect stages as moving in the right direction. He probably feels he needs more air-time in order to get all 4 feet sorted in a single moment of suspension, so he's ...
- Wed Nov 16, 2016 3:28 pm
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- Topic: Rational/irrational love/hate lists
- Replies: 8
- Views: 8417
Re: Rational/irrational love/hate lists
I LOVE Minnie Driver!
- Wed Sep 07, 2016 3:53 pm
- Forum: Veterinary, Nutrition, Grooming & Farrier Questions
- Topic: Vet check needed in Newbury OH
- Replies: 2
- Views: 4613
- Wed Aug 24, 2016 4:04 pm
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- Topic: My totally unscientific poll
- Replies: 43
- Views: 30652
Re: My totally unscientific poll
I'd use WAY too much data without wi-fi! When I've briefly been without, I'd go to the local coffee shop to work via their wi-fi.
- Sat Jul 30, 2016 2:47 am
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- Topic: Hulu, Roku, Amazon Fire Stick etc etc etc
- Replies: 24
- Views: 18036
Re: Hulu, Roku, Amazon Fire Stick etc etc etc
I have a Roku. When I bought it (I think at Best Buy) I was asked whether I had HDMI or USB connection, it can work with either. There is also a power cord. I use it almost exclusively to watch Netflix, occasionally to stream music via Pandora. As rarely as I watch TV it is plenty for me. I pay less...
- Sat Jul 30, 2016 2:34 am
- Forum: Dressage Training
- Topic: At long last ... !!!
- Replies: 22
- Views: 18414
Re: At long last ... !!!
Fantastic! It sounds like your determination has reaped many rewards, with flying changes being the most quantifiable. I look forward to hearing about his continued progress. Thanks for sharing the exercises!
- Mon Jul 04, 2016 1:35 pm
- Forum: Dressage Training
- Topic: The "tells" of correct/incorrect work
- Replies: 35
- Views: 30502
Re: The "tells" of correct/incorrect work
I like to have a good look at my horses immediately after pulling the saddle off. The muscles that have worked will be plumped from the increased blood flow. It's a short-lived effect, but it gives an idea what they will look like in a few weeks or months after those muscles have grown in a permanen...
- Mon Jun 27, 2016 2:12 pm
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- Topic: The power people can have over you
- Replies: 7
- Views: 8282
Re: The power people can have over you
My ex-husband was, among other things, financially abusive. I knew I hadn't fully recovered from the damage he inflicted, but I could go months at a time without thinking about it at all, and I was feeling like that was all well in the past. Then recently I was having trouble getting a mortgage loan...
- Sun Jun 19, 2016 11:51 am
- Forum: Tack, Apparel, Facilities and Transportation
- Topic: Experience with Duette saddles
- Replies: 13
- Views: 17198
Re: Experience with Duette saddles
I've seen several and have not been impressed at all, with construction, materials, design, ability to fit horse or rider. I like Black Country hoop trees or Frank Baines (sizes up to 8X!) for wide horses.
- Mon May 30, 2016 11:21 pm
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- Topic: For Boots - Posting More
- Replies: 35
- Views: 23518
Re: For Boots - Posting More
As I'm in the process of buying a fixer-upper, I must say this thread has made me feel much more confident about what I'm headed into: my house has a solid foundation AND roof!
- Sat May 28, 2016 12:07 pm
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- Topic: Why do people...
- Replies: 26
- Views: 19032
Re: Why do people...
Is this your first kid? My experience was that it was worse after the baby came. Complete strangers would chastise me for not dressing the baby appropriately. Such as not putting a hat on her to walk the short distance from car to store on a cloudy day because "she'll get sunburned!" Or fr...
- Fri May 20, 2016 11:14 pm
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- Topic: Give me some ideas to convince the old farts in town
- Replies: 28
- Views: 20050
Re: Give me some ideas to convince the old farts in town
It sounds as though some "expert testimony" might be handy, to refute the "facts" being slung by the one selectperson. Several experts who agree with each other and support your position could really bolster your argument. The other stumbling block sounds like the cost. Perhaps y...
- Sun May 01, 2016 11:12 am
- Forum: Tack, Apparel, Facilities and Transportation
- Topic: New developments in sticky breeches: How much more sticky?
- Replies: 24
- Views: 23424
Re: New developments in sticky breeches: How much more sticky?
Some of the conversation at Rolex the last couple of days among my fellow saddle fitters was the damage that super-sticky breeches can inflict on a calf-covered saddle. Apparently, they are not a good match!
- Thu Apr 21, 2016 4:32 pm
- Forum: The Observation Lounge/ Cookbook Forum even Hot Topics
- Topic: Official Rolex thread
- Replies: 12
- Views: 10665
Re: Official Rolex thread
I'll be in the Black Country Saddlery stand all week. If there's gonna be a meet up, please let me know!
- Mon Apr 04, 2016 1:40 am
- Forum: The Observation Lounge/ Cookbook Forum even Hot Topics
- Topic: Mysterious Caller
- Replies: 35
- Views: 24720
Re: Mysterious Caller
When I had a similar thing happening at home I learned that keeping a log does no good until after you talk to the police. They need to be asked to do whatever they need to do to monitor a line, then you keep a log and they can look back at who is calling during those times. I don't believe it matte...
- Fri Apr 01, 2016 2:01 pm
- Forum: Dressage Training
- Topic: Emma
- Replies: 71
- Views: 55739
Re: Emma
It's not easy to find the balance between letting the horse set the pace and still making progress. Well done, you! And congratulations on finding this gem! Her whole body has changed with her hoof angles. I'll be interested to hear how she likes her massage. My horse got one yesterday for the first...
- Tue Mar 22, 2016 10:49 pm
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- Topic: Trader Joes Recommendations
- Replies: 26
- Views: 20949
Re: Trader Joes Recommendations
Absolutely Minz! I was on the road when I posted before so I didn't have the details on me. I'll be in booth #1030 in the Bricker building. My business is The Saddle Tree and I'll have my Black Country, Frank Baines, and Harry Dabbs saddles. I believe there will be only one other business solely foc...
- Mon Mar 21, 2016 9:25 pm
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- Topic: Trader Joes Recommendations
- Replies: 26
- Views: 20949
Re: Trader Joes Recommendations
Mmmmm. Trader Joe's. [Drooling.] But like you, Minz, I am easily entertained. Every time I go, I mostly buy things because I don't have any idea what they are or what to do with them. Cookie butter is a repeat purchase, though. You might want to have early Christmas shopping in mind. My Dad, for exa...
- Thu Mar 03, 2016 4:27 pm
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- Topic: Ant infestation
- Replies: 21
- Views: 19504
Re: Ant infestation
Good luck! When we had a similar issue we hired an exterminator that promised they'd come back for free if the problem wasn't eradicated. After his 4th time back, he conceded defeat and refunded our money. :shock: Shortly thereafter we happened to have the porch roof replaced, and the nest was found...
- Mon Feb 22, 2016 3:55 pm
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- Topic: Remember the Jane Austen thread from the UDBB?
- Replies: 36
- Views: 25789
Re: Remember the Jane Austen thread from the UDBB?
I confess I haven't read Jane Austen. It always sounded too heavy for my taste. But I was wondering whether any of you had read Jonathan Strange and Mr. Norrell by Susanna Clarke? I was just re-reading it, and noticed that 3 of the 8 critics quoted on the back cover compared it to the work of Austen...
- Sat Feb 06, 2016 5:23 pm
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- Topic: Brain Picking for Sick Dog
- Replies: 42
- Views: 27803
Re: Brain Picking for Sick Dog
Yay! for Suzon's dog! The wisdom of the DDBB wins another one!
- Fri Feb 05, 2016 2:58 am
- Forum: Dressage Training
- Topic: Energy!
- Replies: 17
- Views: 16829
Re: Energy!
IMHO, this is the crux of why many people get stuck at the lower levels. The amount of energy required can be a bit intimidating to those not used to it. On the rare occasion that I coach anymore, "MORE ENERGY!" is the most common thing I say. 

- Wed Jan 27, 2016 7:11 pm
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- Topic: Can someone explain the Oregon thing to me?
- Replies: 18
- Views: 16767
Re: Can someone explain the Oregon thing to me?
From the article linked above, they were sentenced as arsonists, not terrorists, which makes a whole lot more sense!
- Wed Jan 27, 2016 3:11 pm
- Forum: Dressage Training
- Topic: Now this is some NICE dressage
- Replies: 9
- Views: 9013
Re: Now this is some NICE dressage
Love it! Thanks for sharing! I think it is notable that it was only about 1st to 2nd level. You don't have to be trained to a very high level to be amazing, just do what you do really well. 

- Tue Jan 05, 2016 10:31 pm
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- Topic: From whence springs the ability to fix things?
- Replies: 25
- Views: 19440
Re: From whence springs the ability to fix things?
I think that learning to fix stuff it requires a willingness to accept the consequences if you screw it up and a tolerance for frustration! Then, as you do more, you gain more confidence either because you were successful so you feel like you can do it, or because you weren't successful but the worl...
- Sat Jan 02, 2016 3:30 pm
- Forum: Dressage Training
- Topic: Non-dressage trainers. Thoughts?
- Replies: 16
- Views: 15474
Re: Non-dressage trainers. Thoughts?
Classical western riding - the way it was done a few decades ago as opposed to the more recent AQHA crap - is VERY similar to dressage. After all it has its roots in Spain, as does the Spanish riding school... Traditionally, western horses are ridden in the bosal for several years before graduating ...
- Tue Dec 22, 2015 4:27 pm
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- Topic: So I have a court date tomorrow...
- Replies: 29
- Views: 25595
Re: So I have a court date tomorrow...
Congratulations! I can't believe how fabulous life is since my divorce! I hope you find the same to be true.
- Wed Dec 16, 2015 11:08 pm
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- Topic: More changes for DDBB.
- Replies: 6
- Views: 7901
Re: More changes for DDBB.
Very nice!
- Sat Dec 12, 2015 2:43 pm
- Forum: Dressage Training
- Topic: Loose ring bits...am I crazy?
- Replies: 14
- Views: 14599
Re: Loose ring bits...am I crazy?
Yep. I think "sloppy" is a good term. I've referred to it as "static" from the jiggling bit that my aids have to get through. I don't often speak of my feelings on the matter, but last time I did, to a highly experienced UL trainer, he said that people with really good hands tend...
- Wed Dec 09, 2015 9:35 pm
- Forum: Dressage Training
- Topic: under-tempo
- Replies: 29
- Views: 24314
Re: under-tempo
Apparently my post had a much different tone than I intended. I just really want to get into the details of the theory and practice so I understand. Perhaps my frustration with my own lack of understanding came across as frustration with all of you. I do apologize.
- Wed Dec 09, 2015 4:36 pm
- Forum: Dressage Training
- Topic: under-tempo
- Replies: 29
- Views: 24314
Re: under-tempo
So as is usually the case with this topic, most responses contrast under tempo with rushing as if those are the only 2 choices. ;) No one has yet said for what duration they would work a horse under-tempo. As I said, I do so for only a few strides at a time. For example, on a horse that has a tenden...
- Tue Dec 08, 2015 2:04 pm
- Forum: Tack, Apparel, Facilities and Transportation
- Topic: Frank Baines Balance International Saddles
- Replies: 7
- Views: 10437
Re: Frank Baines Balance International Saddles
I'm a fan! I'm not sure what you mean by a "regular saddle" though as they are essentially normal. Frank Baines saddles, including but not limited to the Balance saddles, are the best for wide horses, IMO. They come in sizes up to 8W, so extra, extra, extra, extra, extra, extra, extra wide...
- Mon Dec 07, 2015 1:57 pm
- Forum: Dressage Training
- Topic: under-tempo
- Replies: 29
- Views: 24314
under-tempo
Many people advocate working under-tempo in certain circumstances. I've never quite understood why you would want to do this for more than a 2 or 3 strides before pushing on. I'm all for "ride your horse forward and straighten him!" Can you please explain what circumstances would lead you ...
- Sun Dec 06, 2015 2:34 pm
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- Topic: More gift advice
- Replies: 36
- Views: 30281
Re: More gift advice
Better hone your investigative skills! Engage him in a conversation. Ferret out some clues. 

- Fri Nov 27, 2015 11:13 pm
- Forum: Tack, Apparel, Facilities and Transportation
- Topic: Air Panel Saddles and Interchangeable Gullets
- Replies: 6
- Views: 8349
Re: Air Panel Saddles and Interchangeable Gullets
This is the Cair panel: http://i815.photobucket.com/albums/zz75/dara_dempsey/2015-11-27%2017.07.28.jpg So as you can see, it is actually two air bladders, one in the front and one in the rear of each panel. From the top you can better appreciate the overlap: http://i815.photobucket.com/albums/zz75/d...
- Thu Nov 19, 2015 6:22 pm
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- Topic: Whatever happened to customer service?
- Replies: 18
- Views: 18403
Re: Whatever happened to customer service?
I bet we all have loads of examples of this! And it is very sad. One of my most recent: I'm switching banks because PNC made a mistake. I went in to the local branch and pointed the mistake out to them and the response was, "Oops, sorry" but with no attempt to correct it. This was an error...
- Mon Nov 16, 2015 2:27 pm
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- Topic: Simple pleasures. The grilled cheese sandwich...
- Replies: 69
- Views: 66125
- Sat Nov 07, 2015 2:40 pm
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- Topic: Simple pleasures. The grilled cheese sandwich...
- Replies: 69
- Views: 66125
Re: Simple pleasures. The grilled cheese sandwich...
Next time you are passing through Ohio make a point of stopping at Melt Bar and Grill, specializing in gourmet grilled cheese: http://meltbarandgrilled.com/menu/melt-menu/ The only complaint I have about it is that their sandwiches are so filling I am full after half of one, and I really want to try...
- Fri Nov 06, 2015 2:45 am
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- Topic: What would you tell your 20 year old self if you could?
- Replies: 47
- Views: 47100
Re: What would you tell your 20 year old self if you could?
Listen to your gut, it's way smarter than you think.
Don't make decisions based on fear of "what if it fails?" Instead think "what if it works?" and go for it!
Don't make decisions based on fear of "what if it fails?" Instead think "what if it works?" and go for it!
- Thu Oct 22, 2015 4:19 pm
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- Topic: Oven disaster. My husband says "ask the horse ladies..."
- Replies: 15
- Views: 17831
Re: Oven disaster. My husband says "ask the horse ladies..."
This sounds like not at all your style, but what I do is ignore it, bake a few more things, and after a while I notice that the former goo is now a pile of ash. At which point it wipes away very easily. Benign neglect is my housekeeping style. 
