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That is fantastic advice. [Eh gads, the self diagnosis fad drives me bonkers.] I've tried to impart something of this sort with several friends who've gone through personal/marital rough patches. Fixing the immediate is not as important as fixing the underlying component, be it an inability to commu...

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Barn, work, family/friend drama ... I just don't engage. A quick smile, quiet "hi, hope you're having a great day," and move along. It's not just worth my time. Own the "aloof" and "standoffish," DJR! Every time I've gotten that on a review, I crack up and ask if I'm su...

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I generally buy/breed for a lifetime. Between my mother and I, we've bought five horses, adopted one. One was permanently loaned out (euthanized in his 40s), two were sold, one died (or committed suicide?), one euthanized (see seniors forum), the fourth is still as ornery and sweet as ever (Appaloos...

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We have lots of data, two mobile hotspots with more data, and lots of gadgets that use data. My husband's a computer geek/gamer (that covers everything digital), I'm a freelance (from home) UX/graphic designer. Home: 100% broadband/wifi Out/traveling: wifi/data if necessary We frequently run out of ...

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Enjoy the time you have Texsuze. These elders have a lot of wisdom to share. That sparkle and running habit (yes, she still was galloping the pasture, nearly every day) were what made this whole process tough. Joy's stubborn hide kept saying "I'm fine," even when her body was swiftly decli...

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I wouldn't use shavings in an open trailer -- too many projectiles. On that subject, fly masks are great on the freeway. A stabilizer/equalizer hitch is a must for me. Check tire pressure every trip. Check the hubs for excessive heat/warping during stops. Carry water & bucket. Pack an emergency ...

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Thank you all. Joy's been a mainstay in my life for so long that making the decision to say goodbye was tough. She was inquisitive, impatient, and utterly unable to hold still right up to the last moment (there's reason for that chain!) Joy's left behind a great big void, but I am comforted that I m...

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I said goodbye to my 36yo mare today. Joy gave me nearly 26 years of infectious curiosity, joyfulness, and utter impatience. She left behind two generations — both redheaded mares — in Anzia and Maia (Anzia's offspring). The former is nothing like her dam, the latter embodies many of Joy's good qual...

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I'd take the camera that's cheaper to replace, and the 18-200 mm lens. Check EMS/REI for a water tight, floating bag to stash the camera in when not in use.

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Would he make an honest pro v. con list? I keep a running list in mind when dealing with our oldsters (and use hubby as a sounding board). When the cons start outweighing the pros it's time. And, I can justify the decision later when I inevitably start second guessing the decision. For example, our ...

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Rockabilly, I just perked up that there's another Kenji/Serious Eats fan here :) We're having the wilted kale, roasted potato and tahini salad for dinner. Varying from the original Epicurious recipe by adding chickpeas (and not actually following the recipe -- I've made it a time or two) with a side...

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Nicknames are fine, but this is way too familiar. I'd put a stop to it immediately before he ventures into creepy territory. My last boss saw nothing wrong with calling female coworkers "honey" or "sweetie." Still have no clue why it was acceptable to the female CEO (I complained).

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First dinner with my husband's brothers, wives and parents was a shock. They didn't talk. Everyone ate with their forearms wrapped around their plates. And they shoveled. I am an unapologetically sarcastic person. Several years, many dinners, and numerous attempts to engage the family in dinner conv...

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The fresh basil had turned black and slimy.

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My hopes of pesto were thwarted by less than edible basil, which I discovered after starting the pasta. The make shift replacement is sautéed kale tossed with leftover peanut sauce over pasta, all topped with a poached egg. So far, so good.

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Why would immigration suddenly become a concern? Millions of people have immigrated to the US under less than stellar circumstances. Individuals should not be judged on the actions of the whole, and the whole group should not be poisoned by a handful of individuals. Bringing guns into the equation, ...

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I think you need to sell your second home.

Glad the docs are actually doing something rather than slapping on another bandaid

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Coincidentally, my husband's out of town next week ... and CSA has us loaded down with cabbage

If I can find fennel, that too will be on the menu!

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I love stinky blues, but only indulge when my husband is away (he can't stand the smell). First night is almost always room temp Stilton smeared on crackers. The next night I make mac and cheese. While caramelizing an onion in a skillet, cook the pasta (farfalle has the best shape and texture for th...

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No matter what choice was made, anything the zookeepers did was going to be heavily criticized in media/social media.

Unfortunately their choice resulted in one death. Fortunately it wasn't two deaths.

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Gorgeous property! I love quirky houses, but have to agree with Tuffy -- bulldoze and start over.

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This is the third generation adaption of my aunt's Cuban mother-in-law's recipe: Half of a white onion, a few cloves of garlic, one green bell pepper (or several serranos), chopped up and sautéed in a big pot. When you feel like enough time has passed, add two cans of black beans (drained and rinsed...

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Cuban beans and rice will work as a main for both vegetarians and carnivores, and leaves room for all sorts of sides. I can share the family recipe if you'd like.

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This is where "y'all," "y'alls," "youse" and the sort come into play! They make "you" very clearly general!

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I would not be so polite. Commenting on anyone's diet goes against any and all versions of acceptable public behavior. The other thing that perpetually annoys me -- and I have never been pregnant -- is commenting on weight/size. Not the "are you due tomorrow" or "twins" comments,...

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I'd be packing dramamine, regular coke and alcohol wipes.

Camera, plus the waterproof stuff and a (full) spare change of clothes.

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Strawberry fool followed by deviled eggs.

CSA inundated us with strawberries this week -- 3 pints this week.

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I like Jefferson Reserve, but haven't had it in a while. If I recall correctly, it's similar to Blantons. Or, maybe it's just similar in that I like both :D Corner Creek is new to me. It's not on the shelves around here. I'll have to check Jack Rose next time I'm there and see if they have it ... PS...

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None of us asked a pertinent question: what was the nice bottle you just finished off?

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quinta wrote:https://www.blantonsbourbon.com/

and not just because there is a pony on the stopper.

Second Blantons, followed by Willet.

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Do they want the town to grow? Is there data showing the influx v. departure of tech, young professionals, families, etc? Broadband is a necessity for us. WiMAX is a joke. We passed up a larger, cheaper piece of property due to the lack of broadband in the area. The land we ended up buying is a comp...

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My retiree came to us with the same habit. Once we found a somewhat acceptable bit (thick rubber snaffle), the biggest difference maker was providing consistent, soft hands until she learned to trust again. The moment she grabbed the bit and began rooting and swinging, I let the reins slide and push...

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Canyon wrote:no more LG appliances for me!

Ditto.

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We have a LG, French door, freezer drawer, water and ice in the door. The freezer is fantastic. With a sliding divider in the larger space, shallow upper drawer, and small basket on the edge of the large drawer it is easy to organize. Even my husband can find stuff. Bonus: no part of the freezer has...

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I've been planning the future barn for years and am leaning toward Big Ass Fans.

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Boxed items on the left of the divider, oddly shaped things like bread, muffins, bits of sauces, etc on the right. Bags of vegetables are in the top shallow drawer. Like others, I have a chest freezer that holds the bulk of our frozen goods.

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You're going to have to sit in vehicles. Both the Subaru and Infiniti (Nissan) adjust far enough back for me.

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Based on everyone else's experience, I'm going to presume there was something wrong with yesterday's Prius. Well, I hope so anyway!

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I use mpix.com. Prints are delivered flat, quite a few options, and it's relatively cheap.

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I'd happily get a modern automatic, but the cvt's I've experienced (including one in a new Toyota today) are like riding in a manual with a new driver -- clunky, early shifts, thumps, clunky ... did I mention weird clunks?

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Large walk in shower. Unless you're planning to sell in the next few years, go with what you want. You live there, not some potential buyer. We have a jacuzzi tub, second house with one. It's been used as a bathtub two or three times in nearly 10 years. The previous one was used about the same. The ...

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anyone use something like this shape? http://www.amazon.com/Sleep-Innovations-Contour-Memory-Standard/dp/B0029LHHRC/ref=sr_1_5?ie=UTF8&qid=1459478631&sr=8-5&keywords=orthopedic+cervical+pillow Yes. Both of my pillows are like that. I need neck support, and am a stomach/side sleeper. The...

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Favorite is a stiff foam no-name side keyhole-shaped pillow. It's great when my neck is a bear, but no good for my shoulder. I need to use a second pillow to prop my shoulder, which sometimes work out well, but is often a disaster. Tempur-pedic keyhole-shaped side pillow is my second choice. I have ...

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Chisamba wrote:and a long and boring list of various kinds of curry you can look at

There is nothing boring about curry!

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KathyK wrote:
awa wrote:Triple ginger cookies

Now you've gotten my attention.

You've reminded me -- black licorice Scottie dogs!

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I am not a huge TJ fan, but second the chocolate recomendation. Any time I need large quantities lf chocolate, I head to TJ's for the unlabelled bars.

You can also p/u fairly cheap bags of nuts.

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You might try clearing cookies/cache. Or open an incognito window and try from there.

It sounds like a browser issue, not website.

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Sorry you caught it too

I'm one for one. Each year I've gotten a flu shot, I've gotten the flu.

I got one this year to visit a friend who's undergoing treatment for leukemia. Sure was effective!

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Heddy, how did you shatter your hand? I fell while running a trail race. The whole tuck and roll thing doesn't do crap when you land on a tree root. I didn't have a compound fracture, but completely severed (and splintered) the base of the proximal phalanx just above the joint with the sesamoid in ...

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Bones take forever to heal. Eight weeks may as well be a day in the process. It's nothing. Store away the small breakthroughs (able to hold 3 horses for farrier; walked to the mailbox w/o pain, etc) to remind yourself that there is improvement during the down times. Are you in physical therapy? I ba...

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