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by heddylamar
Sun Sep 26, 2021 11:49 am
Forum: The Observation Lounge/ Cookbook Forum even Hot Topics
Topic: Helmet Awareness - 20% Off...
Replies: 11
Views: 2782

Re: Helmet Awareness - 20% Off...

I tried on a ton of MIPS last year, and ended up with the CO My PS. Our Dover didn't have everything in stock, but the One K and Trauma Void they did have were a big fat no, unless I wanted to return to the days of helmet-induced migraine. And, no, I didn't replace it after my fall last year. Probab...
by heddylamar
Fri Sep 24, 2021 1:20 pm
Forum: The Observation Lounge/ Cookbook Forum even Hot Topics
Topic: Helmet Awareness - 20% Off...
Replies: 11
Views: 2782

Re: Helmet Awareness - 20% Off...

SmartPak, Schneiders, and Dover are all offering 20% off too.
by heddylamar
Wed Sep 22, 2021 6:12 pm
Forum: The Observation Lounge/ Cookbook Forum even Hot Topics
Topic: Does your farrier make an appt for the next time?
Replies: 25
Views: 6225

Re: Does your farrier make an appt for the next time?

Chisamba wrote:My farrier doesn't keep an appointment book. I text him when I need him.

Mom's farrier has a similar practice. But he's partially retired and has referred most of his book elsewhere, so it's easy to fit her in whenever.
by heddylamar
Mon Sep 20, 2021 3:01 pm
Forum: The Observation Lounge/ Cookbook Forum even Hot Topics
Topic: Does your farrier make an appt for the next time?
Replies: 25
Views: 6225

Re: Does your farrier make an appt for the next time?

That’s obnoxious. I’ve got a standing appointment day and time, every 6 weeks. That’s been the standard with my farrier for the 15+ years he’s been doing my mares’ feet. The other farrier who comes to our barn has a standing appointment time too. I’m not looking forward to moving next year because I...
by heddylamar
Mon Sep 20, 2021 2:56 pm
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: September - October goals and progress
Replies: 311
Views: 92463

Re: September - October goals and progress

Great videos and photos Anne and Lips. You should definitely take Lynx to the clinic, Lips. It doesn’t sound like you’ll get much personal benefit riding your sister-in-law’s horse, so take Lynx and get some good building blocks for the next stages of his training. I am impressed every time you shar...
by heddylamar
Sun Sep 19, 2021 2:41 pm
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: Tips on sitting a rough canter
Replies: 14
Views: 3268

Re: Tips on sitting a rough canter

How does he go after counter canter? I'm imaging it will be a rough, ugly counter canter ... but even a few strides in a shallow loop, may be enough to get him to straighten out. Ditto spiral in and out at the canter. You can do the later subtly, 1-2 steps in, straight, 1-2 steps out, during all can...
by heddylamar
Sat Sep 18, 2021 12:50 pm
Forum: Tack, Apparel, Facilities and Transportation
Topic: Secrets, tips for shiny boots?
Replies: 14
Views: 4143

Re: Secrets, tips for shiny boots?

Polish as normal, then the kiwi gloss and a blast from a hair dryer as Chisamba describes. I normally use clear, and follow up with with a scrap of old pillow case or the extra soft buffing brush.

Used to do DH's and dad's boots too when they were active duty ...
by heddylamar
Tue Sep 07, 2021 11:15 pm
Forum: Veterinary, Nutrition, Grooming & Farrier Questions
Topic: Encouraging drinking away from home
Replies: 13
Views: 2977

Re: Encouraging drinking away from home

The auto waterer definitely changes things! I used khall's crack water successfully with one horse, another mare turned her nose up at that and far prefered bobbing for water bucket hay and apples. With her attention on me, I'd put a generous handful of hay in her water bucket, add water, and hand i...
by heddylamar
Mon Sep 06, 2021 3:29 am
Forum: Veterinary, Nutrition, Grooming & Farrier Questions
Topic: Encouraging drinking away from home
Replies: 13
Views: 2977

Re: Encouraging drinking away from home

Add electrolytes, soak food, and bring some water from home. Otherwise, don't worry ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
by heddylamar
Tue Aug 31, 2021 3:39 am
Forum: The Observation Lounge/ Cookbook Forum even Hot Topics
Topic: How is everyone feeling with Biden administration?
Replies: 61
Views: 13317

Re: How is everyone feeling with Biden administration?

Ryeissa wrote:I quoted a variety of sources, no i didn't cherry pick. Its accepted that his ratings are the lowest ever, from many types of people.

Were the links removed?
by heddylamar
Mon Aug 30, 2021 11:11 pm
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: Who rides bareback?
Replies: 24
Views: 5276

Re: Who rides bareback?

Yup! I haven't ridden Maia bareback yet. Knee rolls are frequently a necessity — she's still going through the headstrong "I know best" stage and trying to yank me out of the tack when she doesn't get her way. The only pads I've seen that don't look like a safety hazard are essentially sad...
by heddylamar
Mon Aug 30, 2021 5:58 pm
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: Sweat equity: July-August goals and progress
Replies: 209
Views: 74173

Re: Sweat equity: July-August goals and progress

I'm so sorry, Moutaineer. It's so hard saying goodbye.
by heddylamar
Mon Aug 23, 2021 10:53 pm
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: Sweat equity: July-August goals and progress
Replies: 209
Views: 74173

Re: Sweat equity: July-August goals and progress

Annabelle looks lovely, SF! My riding has bit a bit less exciting. I think I may have posted about this — or just thought about sharing — when I figured out the cause of my slight crookedness, it led to the realization that sometime in the past 4 years, I started tipping my pelvis forward. Probably ...
by heddylamar
Sat Aug 21, 2021 3:17 pm
Forum: The Observation Lounge/ Cookbook Forum even Hot Topics
Topic: Picking a new barn, help
Replies: 43
Views: 7572

Re: Picking a new barn, help

Barn V. I couldn't deal with a barn with a lesson program again, so while H sounds nice, the foot traffic and potential arena congestion would drive me nuts.
by heddylamar
Thu Aug 12, 2021 4:49 am
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: Lets talk about stretching for the mid-upper level lads and lassies (for real this time)
Replies: 23
Views: 5264

Re: Lets talk about stretching for the mid-upper level lads and lassies (for real this time)

My old mare, Joy, could start out incredibly stiff and benefitted from a 5-10-minute warmup of stretchy walk, to stretchy canter, to slowly collecting counter canter, then back to walk, and on with our ride. I don't know that I've ever walked Anzia on a long rein, except when required in a dressage ...
by heddylamar
Thu Aug 05, 2021 2:07 pm
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: Will Faerber again
Replies: 182
Views: 42129

Re: Will Faerber again

"My current (hunter) trainer has brought me so far, I don't want to alienate her by taking a lesson with someone else" I will never understand this sort of blind loyalty. The only person who I go back to exclusively is my hair stylist. Otherwise? If my horse needs a second opinion, I go t...
by heddylamar
Thu Aug 05, 2021 1:25 pm
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: The Olympics
Replies: 42
Views: 8166

Re: The Olympics

Explosion is an absolutely gorgeous jumper!
by heddylamar
Wed Aug 04, 2021 1:25 am
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: Sweat equity: July-August goals and progress
Replies: 209
Views: 74173

Re: Sweat equity: July-August goals and progress

Maia's down to just a poofy knee — no more lameness!

Ouch! Poor Odin. That sounds terribly painful.
by heddylamar
Tue Aug 03, 2021 2:59 am
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: Sweat equity: July-August goals and progress
Replies: 209
Views: 74173

Re: Sweat equity: July-August goals and progress

Eeek, Tanga! So not cool. Glad you've got a team looking into that.
by heddylamar
Tue Aug 03, 2021 2:56 am
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: Sweat equity: July-August goals and progress
Replies: 209
Views: 74173

Re: Sweat equity: July-August goals and progress

Moutaineer wrote:How is Maia today, Heddy?

Slightly less gimpy? No real clear source of discomfort yet, and she seems a touch better to both BO and me. I'll give her a few more days before I call the lameness specialist.
by heddylamar
Tue Aug 03, 2021 2:01 am
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: Will Faerber again
Replies: 182
Views: 42129

Re: Will Faerber again

Chancellor wrote:
blob wrote:Gosh, I'd love to see the video/post that has brought this flock of first timers here.


Me too! Just a little bit of drama to start the week.
And here I thought getting a new job was going to be sufficient drama for me.


Popcorn, anyone?
by heddylamar
Mon Aug 02, 2021 1:32 am
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: Sweat equity: July-August goals and progress
Replies: 209
Views: 74173

Re: Sweat equity: July-August goals and progress

Ryeissa wrote:is anyone out there doing ....well....lately?

We were doing great. Then, this morning :lol:
by heddylamar
Sun Aug 01, 2021 7:53 pm
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: Sweat equity: July-August goals and progress
Replies: 209
Views: 74173

Re: Sweat equity: July-August goals and progress

Maia came in with a puffy knee this morning. Definitely lame. No heat. No reaction to manipulation. No fever. No mud/dirt skid marks (the normal tell-tale sign). I carefully applied DMSO ... Maia carefully applied DMSO to me :roll: Hopefully she'll have some miraculous recovery tomorrow. Or at least...
by heddylamar
Sat Jul 31, 2021 4:51 pm
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: Will Faerber again
Replies: 182
Views: 42129

Re: Will Faerber again

Anyone looking into Will's training can see the difference in how theses horses are ridden vs many dressage riders. If you are interested, please research his way of riding yourself. Will is GREAT!!!! Such stellar testimony /s This might be believable if you both hadn't registered today and these w...
by heddylamar
Fri Jul 23, 2021 3:33 am
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: Sweat equity: July-August goals and progress
Replies: 209
Views: 74173

Re: Sweat equity: July-August goals and progress

This is a rather timely piece , since most of us are riding in some pretty aggressive heat. The findings aren't particularly surprising IMO. It echoes my own observations about myself — distance runner, DC area, lots of heat and humidity — I recover better if I stand in a cold shower for 10-15 minu...
by heddylamar
Sun Jul 18, 2021 3:59 pm
Forum: The Observation Lounge/ Cookbook Forum even Hot Topics
Topic: Painful topic making that hard choice
Replies: 47
Views: 9885

Re: Painful topic making that hard choice

How are the cattle dog and your mom getting along? I’m a huge fan of bossy little cattle dogs :)
by heddylamar
Mon Jul 12, 2021 11:48 pm
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Topic: San Antonio
Replies: 4
Views: 1840

Re: San Antonio

Thanks, texsuze! I hadn't found Alamo Dressage yet. That gave me a very good possibility in Boerne. Central Texas eventing seems to have disappeared from the internet ... I did find a thread on eventers elsewhere, but no real stand-out boarding opportunities. As for housing, not having really looked...
by heddylamar
Sun Jul 11, 2021 6:15 pm
Forum: The Observation Lounge/ Cookbook Forum even Hot Topics
Topic: San Antonio
Replies: 4
Views: 1840

San Antonio

Is there anyone in the San Antonio area? We'll likely be relocating in 2022, and since it's only a short stop, I'd prefer to board. Any suggestions on facilities? I'll happily board at a dressage or eventing facility. Less interested in a hunter/jumper barn, because they seem to attract lesson progr...
by heddylamar
Tue Jul 06, 2021 7:56 pm
Forum: The Observation Lounge/ Cookbook Forum even Hot Topics
Topic: I come here to seek refuse and I get
Replies: 15
Views: 4352

Re: I come here to seek refuse and I get

Those are some rather strong, vile accusations to be throwing around.

That said, I am sorry about your losses.
by heddylamar
Fri Jul 02, 2021 2:41 am
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: Sweat equity: July-August goals and progress
Replies: 209
Views: 74173

Re: Sweat equity: July-August goals and progress

Me: Ride 5+ days a week* Run 5+ days a week* Continue weight lifting program (blech)* Overcome the lazy right leg (riding) Maia: Don't bounce the rider More gymnastics Trailering :roll: Decent canter transitions Counter canter Anzia: More trail riding *This is all a challenge because I'm busy worki...
by heddylamar
Mon Jun 28, 2021 1:30 pm
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: May-June: Don't be afraid to set some goals and make it better
Replies: 279
Views: 45993

Re: May-June: Don't be afraid to set some goals and make it better

heddylamar wrote:Lol. Goals? I'll settle for riding again.


Met my goal!! 4-5 times a week, since I got back on Maia. Anzia's on vacation again, but we'll get back to "work" soon :lol:
by heddylamar
Tue Jun 22, 2021 1:14 am
Forum: The Observation Lounge/ Cookbook Forum even Hot Topics
Topic: Guest bedroom bed advice
Replies: 6
Views: 2631

Re: Guest bedroom bed advice

I only have two comments regarding guest rooms in general: - Make outlets available adjacent to the bedside tables (alternatively, there are nice cloth covered little extension cord/USB bricks that mount to flat surfaces) - Add a bed topper when you push the twin beds together I know that this guest...
by heddylamar
Mon Jun 21, 2021 6:37 pm
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: May-June: Don't be afraid to set some goals and make it better
Replies: 279
Views: 45993

Re: May-June: Don't be afraid to set some goals and make it better

the barn car Pop likes riding, she loves to lie in the indoor when u am riding and she plays with sunbeams . it turns out to be useful desensitizer We used to have a barn kitty like that. The current two are mostly bums and nap in the sun on the roof of the shavings shed. It's the neighborhood tom ...
by heddylamar
Mon Jun 21, 2021 4:07 am
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: May-June: Don't be afraid to set some goals and make it better
Replies: 279
Views: 45993

Re: May-June: Don't be afraid to set some goals and make it better

Cats in trees have officially joined the ranks of plastic bags and tarps on Maia's "oh shit" list. Maia attempted to deposit my butt in the sand for the second time in 4 months. She failed. Heddy: 1 / Maia: 1 :lol: I'll have her totally desensitized to the tree climbing cat — like she's be...
by heddylamar
Fri Jun 18, 2021 8:11 pm
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: May-June: Don't be afraid to set some goals and make it better
Replies: 279
Views: 45993

Re: May-June: Don't be afraid to set some goals and make it better

Moutaineer wrote:Those were happy smiling faces :)

Lol. That's fitting! :D
by heddylamar
Fri Jun 18, 2021 2:55 am
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: May-June: Don't be afraid to set some goals and make it better
Replies: 279
Views: 45993

Re: May-June: Don't be afraid to set some goals and make it better

It was in the air, Mountaineer! Maia's been a perfect angel since I got back on her ... until today. She let her hair down and turned *all* the crazy loose :lol:
by heddylamar
Wed Jun 09, 2021 5:05 pm
Forum: The Observation Lounge/ Cookbook Forum even Hot Topics
Topic: Rotator cuff tear/surgery? Update
Replies: 22
Views: 6208

Re: Rotator cuff ear/surgery?

My grandmother tore both of her rotator cuffs, and ended up having surgery. It worked fabulous, and she was really annoyed after the first repair that she'd wasted so much time on physical therapy first. That said, there are new options. I'd ask about PRP and stem cell treatment, and research med jo...
by heddylamar
Mon Jun 07, 2021 3:46 pm
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: May-June: Don't be afraid to set some goals and make it better
Replies: 279
Views: 45993

Re: May-June: Don't be afraid to set some goals and make it better

Maia was perfect! You wouldn't have known she's had 3 months + 4 days off ;) I asked a friend to meet me out there rather than ride alone, and she did in-hand work with her mare while I rode. Her dogs tried to provide spooking distraction, running laps of the field and leaping in and out of the aren...
by heddylamar
Mon Jun 07, 2021 3:19 am
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: May-June: Don't be afraid to set some goals and make it better
Replies: 279
Views: 45993

Re: May-June: Don't be afraid to set some goals and make it better

Send good thoughts my way tomorrow AM? I'll be climbing on Maia for the first time since she used me as a trampoline. I intended to do this a few weeks ago, but my grandmother died, and I was mighty distracted. So now we're 3 months + 5 days post-incident ... and I'll likely be discharged from PT la...
by heddylamar
Thu Jun 03, 2021 1:38 am
Forum: Veterinary, Nutrition, Grooming & Farrier Questions
Topic: Nicked an Artery!
Replies: 10
Views: 3356

Re: Nicked an Artery!

Scary!! That's quick thinking. Mariano is a seriously lucky guy.

An incident like that caused my uncle to start carrying a gun when trail riding. He and my aunt ride in very remote areas, so help wasn't coming anytime soon.
by heddylamar
Mon May 31, 2021 10:04 pm
Forum: Veterinary, Nutrition, Grooming & Farrier Questions
Topic: What do your horses eat?
Replies: 15
Views: 4370

Re: What do your horses eat?

Maia gets 2# Strategy pellets and 1-2.5 cups (varies based on condition) rice bran pellet 2x/day. I started her on raspberry leaves in March because she was being a big ol' feral brat and I wasn't able to come out and work with her until my leg wounds healed :roll: She'll probably stay on that for a...
by heddylamar
Sat May 29, 2021 2:41 pm
Forum: The Observation Lounge/ Cookbook Forum even Hot Topics
Topic: 30-06 to kill a horse
Replies: 10
Views: 4051

Re: 30-06 to kill a horse

On the off chance this isn't trolling ... after a very bad back-country accident, my uncle started carrying a 0.38. What I know about about guns won't fill a thimble, so I have no clue if that's comparable to a 30-06. ETA: He's a very experienced marksman and elk hunter, and I do know that he ruled ...
by heddylamar
Thu May 27, 2021 11:16 am
Forum: Rider health and fitness
Topic: Health and fitness 2021
Replies: 56
Views: 19711

Re: Health and fitness 2021

My current obsession is that my left, upper thigh doesn't seem to stretch out as well as it should, and I think this is leading to hollowing my lower back when riding and trying to apply half halts with my seat. For better or worse, it's all connected. You probably know these already, SF, but all t...
by heddylamar
Thu May 27, 2021 3:50 am
Forum: Rider health and fitness
Topic: Health and fitness 2021
Replies: 56
Views: 19711

Re: Health and fitness 2021

If you maintain any schedule, you're doing fabulous, Anne! I've been doing pretty good! For once in the past *ahem* years :lol: Even with an unexpected jaunt to WA — and off-diet — I lost 5# in the past 2+ weeks (the goal is actually .5/week, but that's not how my body rolls). And, I've picked up my...
by heddylamar
Thu May 27, 2021 3:02 am
Forum: The Observation Lounge/ Cookbook Forum even Hot Topics
Topic: Caring for the aging parent
Replies: 30
Views: 7567

Re: Caring for the aging parent

Mom definitely adds another element to finding sitters. Usually it’s finding farm sitters for the horses and dogs and cat. I understand! I'm the occasional farm sitter, elder horse/dog/cat/chicken/cow sitter and garden caretaker, and Mom's stand-in on-site caretaker for Dad ... not that he needs on...
by heddylamar
Wed May 26, 2021 9:32 pm
Forum: The Observation Lounge/ Cookbook Forum even Hot Topics
Topic: Caring for the aging parent
Replies: 30
Views: 7567

Re: Caring for the aging parent

{{{So many hugs}}} It's so hard watching our loved ones grow older, and even harder when you're the primary caregiver. Is your sister near enough that you can trade houses and take a short vacation? Both aunts — and the second/third(?) cousin — who cared for my grandparents during their declines wer...
by heddylamar
Mon May 24, 2021 10:05 pm
Forum: The Observation Lounge/ Cookbook Forum even Hot Topics
Topic: Help with dumb problem
Replies: 10
Views: 3431

Re: Help with dumb problem

I'm a huge fan of the donation! If not Pony Club or another local horse cause (we have several therapeutic riding programs around here), is there another cause your friend supported?
by heddylamar
Mon May 24, 2021 10:01 pm
Forum: The Observation Lounge/ Cookbook Forum even Hot Topics
Topic: age is just a #-right??
Replies: 11
Views: 3650

Re: age is just a #-right??

My aunt's well into her 60s and does 15+ mile day hikes in the Cascades, as well as multi-day rides on her horses in the back country. She has "retired" from dressage ... really, just quit actively training and competing. She still trains her trail horses through third level. Mom's several...

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